I’ll take it as a complement, … i guess

We decided that gay guys night out to watch Last Kiss together was a bad idea, so we went to McCabe’s Bar over on Santa Monica/25th street for some beer and pool instead.  We stroll to the bar and order a couple beers, to where the bartender asks for our IDs.  Looks at jonathan, then mine, and she goes, “Wow, i would not have guessed it, i thought you were coming here for you 21st birthday.”  Great, for some reasons i know everyone else in this world would take it as a compement, but for me its like the peanut joke, it just gets old.